To Be An Awesome Mother

Dearest Friend,

It doesn’t take much to be an awesome mother. There are just a few things to remember.

Awesome Mother

Sometimes being an awesome mother is letting the kids run through the water from the hose in their clothes.

  • Love your child with all your heart
  • Give yourself grace
  • Extend grace to those who need it
  • Don’t try to be like that mother (You know the one, the one who we think has it all together.)
  • Set boundaries that work for your household

I can’t tell you what loving your child will look like, because every child and every parent is different. Some parents excel at showing our love through time spent playing games with the kids. Others of us excel through cooking meals from scratch every night. Or perhaps none of those are you. You just do your best each day and get in snuggles every chance you get, and that is great too.

There are days though you will feel like you have blown it. In those moments you may have given too harsh of a punishment, yelled too loud, or were just plain mean don’t lose heart. You can use this as a teachable moment. In these moments I go back and apologize for my poor behavior. Then I explain what I could have done better, and ask for forgiveness.

 

Sometimes those around us just need an extra measure of understanding. They need our love instead of our discipline. Get to the heart of the issue and address that. Sometimes the poor behavior of others is a symptom of a larger issue of the heart. Just love them.

Remember you were uniquely and wonderfully created. The bible says, “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” It also talks about how each of us has a different purpose here on this earth, if you want to read more about it, go to 1 Corinthians 12. So what all this means for you, dear friend, is no two mothers will do the job the same. We were each created with different skills, abilities, and strengths. Play to your strengths and you will be awesome.

Following suite with the above no two households are the same. So what that means is that I might need rules in my home that you never even considered. Maybe your home is too lenient for my taste, but it works for you. Or perhaps you are even more strict than I am. The bible says very little as to exactly what a home is to look like.  (That is a post for another day though.)  From what it does say though we can determine how it is best looks in our individual homes.

I can’t say that this will always be easy to do, because some days it is hard to extend grace. Other days that nagging voice creeps in and makes us doubt whether we are enough, or doing it right. On those days remember you are loved.

Much Love,

Sara

***What would you say to a friend who doesn’t feel like she is enough?***

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School Evolves With Spring

Spring has arrived in Alabama.

The kids are more easily distracted from book work. The lure of a warm sunny day calls to them. It beckons to be played in, and discovered. So with that our lessons evolve from snugly days reading, afternoons coloring, regular crafting, and page after page workbook lessons to a world of discovery outdoors.

School Evolves With Spring

Paige’s craft from when we discussed chickens.

We are discovering animals  anew. Long walks lead to a discussion on cows, and their nature. An introduction of the baby chicken to their new environment, begins a discussion of life cycles. The planting of seedlings produces a wonder in the cycle of life that the Lord has created. The children marvel at how a seed so small can grow so large, which again open the door for more discussion.

School Evolves With Spring

The baby chicks around 1 week old.

Teamwork and diligence are demonstrated as a green house is being assembled. The value of hard work is being passed on to the next generation.

School Evolves With Spring

Rusty and a family friend working on the frame for our large greenhouse.

Playtime out doors brings its own lessons. Creativity and imagination develop as they turn an old box into their play house. They learn the value of sharing when there are three of them and one softball bat. New skills are being discovered as they are roller skating, riding bikes, and learning to climb trees.

The lessons don’t stop because the weather is warm. They simply evolve.

There is time enough for book work and crafting when the weather is  poor. So while the sun shines I will let them play, for in play they are still learning.

What are some ways that you can inspire learning outdoors where you live?

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Transferring Servers

We are in the process of transferring servers.

Please be patient with us as we try to make this transition as painless as possible.  Some of the widgets didn’t save properly, and I will be replacing those in the next couple of days.  Sorry about that.  Most of the media saved, thankfully.  May God bless you and everything you do.

Rusty and family

Spring on the Farm

Recently I lost the joy in writing I have been writing along a series Fruit of the Spirit. I think there is much that even I can learn from the series, but I think it might time to put it aside for now and write from the heart for a bit. Perhaps by writing what is on my heart and mind I will be able to find some of that joy and passion again.

As spring is arriving in Northern Alabama life is changing around the Russell household. Planting has begun in the small greenhouse. My laundry room is being taken over by seedlings. Baby chicks are taking up residence in the master bedroom. We have even said goodbye to Chloe’s chicken, Tinker Bell.

Spring on the Farm

Rusty has taken on a number of projects around the property. If you wandered around you would find the new chicken coop he is building, and the large greenhouse he is assembling. The back yard now has a small fenced in area for the dogs, now if only we could find all their escape routes from it. The CNC machine is coming along, and the business along with it.

We have even brought in a new member to the household, my sister-in-law, Samantha. She is staying with us for at least the next few months. I have to say the extra set of hands has been a godsend.

Spring on the Farm

Rusty and Chloe working on the frame for the large greenhouse.

I have been managing the chaos of this place the best I can. If you  were to peek in on me, you would find me: cooking, cleaning, teaching, writing, building my BeachBody business, and tending to our little farm. In the midst of all that chaos comes challenges with health  (not only my own hurdles, but for the family as well.)

***What is new in your world?***

 

 

No-Cook Playdough Recipe

My girls and I are fans of anything crafty. I love sitting down working with them on a project. It is just so much fun to see what they will create or how they will interpret what I demonstrated. Sometimes though when they really want to create, I still have house work to do or other work that needs to be done.  This is where playdough comes in, because a little girl can see crayons for only so many days in a row before revolting. (Disclaimer: While yes, I pull out the playdough when I have other work to do, I still must be nearby to supervise. Playdough must not leave the kitchen!)

We have done store-bought playdough in the past. In terms of consistency, it is great I know what I am getting, but it can get expensive to have to continually replace. I also prefer homemade because then I know first hand what is going into the product, and then the girls can also get involved in creating it.

I have tried my hand at both cooked playdough recipes, which for us were a flop, and no-cook recipes. A simple Google search led me to The Best Ever No-Cook Play Dough Recipe. Anna, the author of the blog, offers up this simple recipe. It creates a soft dough that the kids have used for the last two days and there have been no signs of drying out. It produces a great end result that I will turn to again and again.

As great as the result was though I noticed it was stickier and tackier than playdough should be, when I followed the recipe exactly. So what follows below is a slight adaption of the original recipe. (It is worth noting that she does say that you might need to add a touch more flour, but since what I had to add, 1 cup, was more than a touch I will explain how I did this.)

No-Cook Playdough Recipe

No-Cook Playdough Recipe

(Adapted from The Imagination Tree)
 
 

Ingredients

  • 3 cups all-purpose flour (reserve one of the three cups)
  • 2 tablespoons vegetable oil
  • 1/2 cup salt
  • 2 tablespoons cream of tartar
  • Up to 1.5 cups boiling water (add in increments)
  • food coloring (optional)

 

Directions

  1. Mix the flour, oil, and cream of tartar in the bowl of a stand mixer.
  2. On a low-speed add the oil.
  3. Add the boiling water in  1/4  cup increments mixing until the dough is smooth.
  4. If you still have tacky sticky dough and the mixing is not helping go to your flour reserve, and add a 1/8 cup at a time till dough is smooth to touch.
  5. Divide playdough into the different number of colors that you wish to create. Work food coloring into dough by hand, kneading the dough as you go. (This can get a bit messy so gloves are an option here.)

Store your playdough in an airtight container, and it should last for months.

 

Dreaming of Summer

With the night’s getting longer, it has me thinking of summer already. In that spirit I am digging out an old photo.

Dreaming of Summer

What do you most enjoy about summer? What are some of your favorite things to do with the kids or maybe what do you hope to do with the kids?

Fruit of the Spirit: Discovering Your Joy

Have you ever met a person that seemed no matter their circumstance to be full of joy? I have been accused of being that person. I say accused because I am not sure I am as full of joy as I might like to be or even should be. Perhaps it is all a process and all I can do is to press on and strive to be more like the one who has saved my soul. So today the wisdom I share with you is wisdom I am still learning. It is not my own wisdom that I seek to share, and I am writing to remind myself as much as anything else, today.

Discovering Your Joy

How To Discover Joy In Your Life

As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love. I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.” John 15: 9-11  Here we see Jesus instructing us to keep his commands and in doing so we will remain in his love. It is through him and his love that we discover joy and that our joy can be made complete.

To find out what Jesus commands of us all we must do is go to: Matthew 22: 36-40. “‘Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?’ Jesus replied: ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”  It won’t always be easy to love your neighbor as yourself, but it will be worth it. Tough times will come and you may question how God could even be a loving God, and then you might even begin to wonder how you could love God when it doesn’t even feel like he loves you.

But he does love you. He loves you so much that he has something better in mind for you, for each of us. “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16 So even though we live in this world that is broken and filled with pain and sin, God loves us enough to offer us a path to his salvation. All we need to do is accept Jesus.

 

It is through these three truths that we can begin to discover a deep and lasting joy. This is a joy that no one can steal from you. It will not be dependent on your circumstances, but rather you can radiate this joy even in the toughest of times.

 

***Please feel free to comment with any thoughts or questions. I welcome feedback. Thank you for visiting. Now if you have missed any of my prior posts here are the links just for you:  IntroductionLove Your GodLove Your Wives, Submitting To And Respecting Our Husbands, Love Your ChildrenLoving Your Neighbor, and What is Joy.***

 

Dear Mommas

Dear Mommas,

Sometimes your best laid plans will go sideways. It’s ok. It happens to the best of us.  Tomorrow is a new day.

Some days you are so tired you can barely form a coherent thought. We have all been there. At the end of those days I just suggest going to bed. Forget the dishes for a night. Catch up with your favorite show later. Turn the computer off. Turn off the phone. And go to bed. Get as much sleep as your babies will let you have.

Breathe mommas. When the going gets tough remind yourself that this is just a season. Seasons of life change, just like the seasons of weather change.

But remember…

Sometimes the sticky hands pulling on you just want one more hug.

Sometimes whiny cranky child just needs to be held and told everything will be ok.

One day the dandelion flowers for Momma, will come no more.

One day there will be no more art work for the fridge.

One day the toy phone will ring no more.

Enjoy these days.

Even when your best laid plans get torn to shreds, your babies are still there to snuggle. They will crack you up with their latest observation, or melt your heart with their latest gift.

When you are awake on your long nights breathe in the sweet smell of your baby’s hair, and rejoice in the blessings that the Lord has bestowed upon you.

“Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him.” Psalm 127: 3

Much love,

From one tired Momma to another

 

Fruit of The Spirit: What is Joy?

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law” Galations 5:22

“But may the righteous be glad and rejoice before God; may they be happy and joyful.” Psalm 68:3

What is Joy

The Lord calls to his people and tells them to be joyful, to be full of joy, but what is joy? A simple search of the bible leads to 242 references to joy. Realizing this it can become rather overwhelming to dissect what is joy.

This can be further complicated with a simple search around the web.

Webster’s Dictionary defines joy as:

 

  1.  a:  the emotion evoked by well-being, success, or good fortune or by the prospect of possessing what one desires : delight b:  the expression or exhibition of such emotion :  gaiety
  2. a:  a state of happiness or felicity :  bliss
  3. a:  a source or cause of delight

 

DL Moody is quoted as saying, “Joy is love exalted; peace is love in repose; long-suffering is love enduring; gentleness is love in society; goodness is love in action; faith is love on the battlefield; meekness is love in school; and temperance is love in training.”

The more you dive in quotes the more complicated and messy it seems to get. A look at Websters or a Google search for quotes on joy seem to give the impression that joy is happiness. A look at the quote from DL Moody or even a look at all the various scripture verses containing joy seem to give another picture.

This other picture indicates joy is deeper, and more than a feeling.  It would indicate that the Lord is calling us to experience something deeper than a feeling. The Lord is calling us to a joy that radiates out from us no matter our circumstances, meaning even during times of trouble we will still be a joyful people. (James 1:2)

***When you think of joy what are some verses or quotes best exemplify joy? Or perhaps how would you best define joy?***

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Pintastic Pinteresting Party #8

Pintastic Pinteresting Party 3 Welcome back to our party. We are pretty excited about featuring you and spreading the word of some amazing posts to read! Thanks for joining us.

We would love for you to follow the hosts on Pinterest

Adelien at Blessed Learners

Heather at the Welcoming House Blog

Jill at Called To Be A Mom

We would also love to welcome our co-host for February!

Sara at Sara Under The Sun

Shelly at A Mother’s Nook

Karina at Celebrating Every Day

By following them you will be able to see your pins and posts being posted on Pinterest!

It’s great to view articles on Pinterest and scroll and find the perfect read!

Pintastic Rules Collage

Here are the buttons you can share in your Blog Hop Libraries or on your Websites.

Here are this weeks feature:

Random Acts of Kindness
Sybil writes about Random Acts of Kindess week, and suggests some great ways to show a little more kindness to those we come in contact with.
Chili Mac Casserole
In a word this recipe appears to be Yum! Stop by My Life Abundant to get the recipe for yourself!
Called to be a Mom